A new issue of my newsletter is available, if you like that sort of thing. And if you do like that sort of thing, then you should subscribe. Go here. Go. Go now.
What DOES “Auld Lang Syne” mean, anyway?
I’m a week late on getting my newest issue of Dispatches From the Forgotten Stars out, but out it is! I’m writing about another Album Of My Life, the soundtrack to When Harry Met Sally. Go read it! Now! Do it now!
Wazzat? Oh, the link. Here.
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Sunday Stealing, and an announcement!
First, the announcement: I sent out a new installment of the newsletter the other day! This one was in remembrance of actor/director/playwright Tom Noonan, who died recently. Please check it out and subscribe! I try to send it twice a month, with usually a long piece or essay.
Now, for the weekly quiz-thing that I don’t always do weekly but this week I am because it’s prompt-based, which is interesting. Here’s the details:
This week we’re playing word association as suggested by a blogger named Dawn Camp. She said these words “tickled her fancy,” and let’s see if they inspire you. Feel free to answer with either a single word or a thought/memory. It’s up to you.
Word Association. Share what comes to mind when you hear the word …
OK, this sounds interesting! Here we go!
1. Biscuit
OK, where to go with this one? I love biscuits…here we’re talking about the American kind, the fluffy pastry-layered ones with wonderful buttery saltiness. But I learned quite a while back that this is not what British people mean by “biscuit”…but right now, I’m actually thinking of something I read many years ago in a book called The Musician’s World, which is a collection of excerpts from the correspondence of great composers. One of Richard Wagner’s letters, to poet Mathilde Wesendonck (with whom he was cheating on his first wife, Minna), thanks her for a gift of biscuits. Now, this is in translation, so I’m still fuzzy on what exactly Wagner is describing here, food-wise, but here’s an excerpt of the letter. I like this because it shows how weirdly capricious creative people can be about what enables them to get the work done:
Child, child! The biscuits did help; they suddenly jerked me out of a bad path where I had been stuck for a week, unable to go further. Yesterday my attempts to work were miserably unsuccessful. I was in a shocking humor, and gave it vent in a long letter to Liszt in which I informed him that I had come to the end of my composing days…
When the biscuits arrived, I realized what I had been lacking; the biscuits I had here were much too salty, so they could not give me any sensible ideas; but when I took the sweet ones I had always been accustomed to, and dipped them in milk, everything suddenly fell into place. And so I threw aside the revision and went back to composing, on the story of the woman physician from far away…Heavens, how much can be achieved by the right sort of biscuits! Biscuits! that is the proper remedy for composers when they get stuck–but they must be the right kind.
Richard Wagner was a really strange dude…but I’m lying if I didn’t admit that my own creative juices are not sometimes jump-started by some food or another.
2. Crayon
People my age may remember that the big box of Crayolas (the 64-pack, the one that came with the sharpener in the back of the box) would include a color called “Flesh”, so you could color the people in your pictures with the proper flesh color…making certain specific assumptions, obviously, as to what a “proper” flesh color is.
Well, more recently, this seems to be the way of things now:


Not everything is getting worse!
3. Warmth
It’s late February in Buffalo. Warmth is an envied commodity! My main need now, in terms of warmth, is a pair of gloves that (a) keeps my hands comfortably warm, and (b) allows for easy operation of the buttons and dials on my camera. I haven’t looked too deeply for this sort of thing yet, but I imagine I will sometime next year as the temps start falling again. I have a pair of warm gloves that have fingertips that allow for operation of touchscreens, but they’re not super reliable on that score, and I have another pair of gloves that is super reliable on that score, but they’re not particularly warm. I also have a pair of mitten-gloves: the mitten part is actually a flap that folds back, exposing your fingers if you need access. This is currently my best option. I have seen gloves optimized for photographers where the individual fingertips open up and fold back, allowing for operating camera controls, but I haven’t tried them. We’ll see.
4. Flip
Wilson?
Or the cocktail? A flip is apparently (I’ve never had one) a mixture of a spirit, egg, sugar, and spice. (Add cream and you have a nog.) I don’t know that these are made much these days; I’d have to look them up. But I remember reading about the original flip, in a history book I have that centers rum (God, I love history writers!). The original flip was a mixture of beer, rum, and sugar, and you served it hot after heating it by sticking a red-hot iron in it! Yes, that sounds gross. Yes, I would taste it if offered, but I wouldn’t pay for the pleasure.
5. Slush
This will be the dominant landscape feature of my region starting sometime in the next three or four weeks, and likely remaining so until May. Stupid WNY spring, I hate it.
6. Wing
What else?

These are the wings (well, some of them, I fried up a 5-lb bag containing 40-some pieces of wingy goodness) I made on Super Bowl Sunday. And we don’t even watch the game! But being non-observant doesn’t mean that we can’t enjoy the same kind of yummy not-that-good-for-you food that that day brings to all. No, these aren’t Buffalo-style wings; I don’t make those at home. No particular reason, really, other than the fact that everybody around here makes good Buffalo wings, so why make here what I can get when I go out? Maybe I’ll write a post on how these got made sometime soon…or maybe it’ll end up in video form, I did make some footage. We’ll see. But these were very tasty. The wing is a wonderful part of the bird! (In terms of home wing making, I prefer grilling to deep-frying.)
7. Candle
OK, here’s a random Star Trek word association! There’s an episode from the seventh, and final, season of Star Trek: The Next Generation called “Sub Rosa” in which Dr. Crusher falls in love with a ghost who was her grandmother’s lover, or some such thing. It’s a very strange episode that is sufficiently disliked by fandom to often be cited as a good example of the worst Trek stories. I’ve only seen the episode one time, when it originally aired, and I remember it being a really goofy episode indeed. And because this is Trek and there’s nothing truly supernatural in Trek, the ghost is an alien who lives inside a candle. In the first part of the episode, there’s a Scottish groundskeeper–I swear I am not making this up–who tells Dr. Crusher several times, in warning, and also in a really exaggerated Scottish brogue, “Dinna light that cahhhhn-dle!”
To this day I often think of that guy when I go to light a candle.
8. Cinnamon
Oooooh, I love cinnamon! I just love it. It’s probably my favorite spice after black pepper and maybe garlic, if we’re considering garlic a spice. (Technically garlic isn’t a spice, but in most culinary uses it functions as a spice.) I like to add it to the coffee grounds to add flavor to the brew, or also dose my applesauce (we buy the natural stuff with no added sugar) because apples and cinnamon were clearly invented to go together. One reason we love Pastitsio so much is that it contains cinnamon, and I exceed the recipe’s specified amount by a lot. More recently I’ve started taking cinnamon supplements because I’m told that cinnamon is good for blood sugar, and though I’m not generally a fan of black tea, I’ve recently discovered this stuff, following a recommendation by YouTuber Faith Connally:

I really really REALLY love this tea, and I have actually started drinking a mug of this on weekends after my initial cup of coffee, instead of having two cups of coffee.
Goodness, this one turned more extensive than I expected it to!
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New Newsletter!
FYI!!! I’ve relocated my newsletter to Ghost, and just yesterday I issued a new installment! I’ve started a series over there (probably monthly) called “Albums Of My Life”, in which I write about…the albums of my life. Which one do I start with? Well, here’s a question: why can’t this be love?
Check it out! Subscribe! Do it now!!!
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An Important ANNOUNCEMENT regarding the Future of This Site.

OK, y’all, listen up! Thanks to both of you.
Yes, this is the end…of scattershot posting all over the place, including this site.
As part of my upcoming focus on content creation, I’ve decided…well, let me back up. I’ve been “focusing” on content creation for a couple of years now, actually, but I haven’t actually managed to get any real traction, have I? So, I’ve decided to take a more structured approach. See, I want to write and I want to do photography and I also want to make video content about those things and other things too and if I keep taking my former “scattershot” approach to all this, it’s hard to see how I’ll get any of it done in a way that really satisfies me. And that means…
…[audience waits with nervous tension]…
…a posting schedule.
…[audible gasps from the audience]…
I know, I know. I did some kicking around of ideas recently, and I think I’ve come up with at least an initial schedule that will have me posting somewhat consistently on most of my platforms. (The wild-card will be YouTube, because that’s a whole other kettle-o-fish that I need to figure out…recording times and such.)
Here’s what I’m going to start with:
ForgottenStars.net: Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, Friday
This site will remain my main location online. That won’t change. But I won’t be pushing myself to post each and every day (with one exception: the Christmas season, because the Daily Dose of Christmas has to be, you know, daily). Regular posting days here will be as listed above, though as always I will reserve the right to pop in on days when I’d normally not be posting.
As always, posting here will be a grab bag of whatever I’m thinking about at any given time. I might crank out a lengthy essay about some important political issue, or an even longer essay about some pop culture thing that I think is important but nobody else does, or I might still just put up a pretty photo of a flower or a dog or a cat or my snowy backyard. I might even still stick a quick piece of light classical music up for lack of anything better. You never
Dispatches from the Forgotten Stars: First and third Thursday of every month, and maybe the fifth if there is one.
The newsletter really fell by the wayside last year, which I don’t want to have happen again.
Photography sites: Monday, Wednesday, Friday.
This refers to my main “photography showcase” sites and apps: Vero, Foto, and the Forgotten Stars Photography account on Instagram. I need to start using those sites and services regularly.
(By the way, my “regular” Instagram, @jaquandor, will continue to be what-I-want, when-I-want, and generally won’t be a major focus of my “quality” work. It’s more for daily snapshots and whatnot.)
Tiktok: Every day, though I don’t beat myself up if I miss one.
Tiktok is fun and all, and I’ll be posting there fairly regularly. (I already have been, really.) I will also try to echo content from there to my personal Instagram, though I won’t always do this. Quite a bit of Tiktok content is a word prompt superimposed atop a very short video clip that may even be soundless; sharing that short of thing to IG doesn’t always seem worthwhile.
YouTube: Ummmm….
Yeah, I gotta figure out YouTube. First is figuring out my recording setup. More to come there.
All right, moving on! Let’s go! There’s so much time and so little to do!
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Announcing! (and a quiz)
First things first: I have decided to dust off the newsletter that I’ve been maintaining (sort-of) on Substack! But, for various reasons I’ve also decided to migrate my newsletter to the Ghost.io platform. If you previously subscribed to me on Substack, you should have already been migrated and received the new one; but if not, and if you want to subscribe–and why wouldn’t you!–you can go right here to check things out. Yes, this is part of my new focus on content creation in 2026.
And now, let’s take a look at the Sunday Stealing questions for this week!
1. What would you rather be doing right now?
Right this moment, I’m fine! It’s Sunday night, we’ve just finished dinner. We’ll be walking doggos soon. Now, I’d rather not be going back to work tomorrow to start my 2026 work year in earnest, but there it is.
2. What is always on your grocery list?
Half-and-half for coffee. Lactose-free milk. I’m more often than not buying some kind of cheese and chocolate.
3. Have you ever used a fire extinguisher for its intended purpose?
Yes! One time at work one of the ovens had a bit of pooled-up grease that caught fire. I dealt with that right quick!
4. How many times did you text yesterday?
Just twice! Yay, me! I don’t actually text a whole lot.
5. Would you prefer a slow-paced, relaxing vacation or one filled with new sights and experiences?
Some mixture of each. A proper vacation is nice and long with space for both of those things.
Moving on!
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A newsletter!
I’ve shared a new edition of my Substack for the first time in…well, quite a while! This one is a tip of the hat to a collection of photographers whose work I have found particularly helpful and inspiring in my first year of pursuing this hobby seriously. Please check it out and subscribe!
And also, here’s a photo of Buffalo City Hall.

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Checking in! And here are some tabs!
Hello, everyone! As noted several days ago, we have company from out of town and we’re having a good time doing the usual “cheerful visit from out of town” stuff, hence the lack of posting. Things should start normalizing tomorrow…but meantime, some stuff and a clearing of the open tabs:
:: My newest Substack newsletter is out! It’s about baseball in the movies (and a couple of teevee episodes). And see if you can spot the glaring error in my first few sentences! Oops!
:: Variety did a wonderful profile of John Williams a while back:
Over the decades, he was aware of how the great film composers before him had a reputation for being cranky at best or tortured at worst. “Alex North, David Raksin, Jerry Goldsmith and others — brilliant, beautiful talents. All unhappy.” Most had barely suppressed ambitions to write concert music or symphonies instead of scoring movies. They believed that they were, in a sense, slumming it and laboring for directors who they described as “imperious and obstructive.”
“I thought, ‘Well, that’s not a complaint that I want to have to live with.’ So I went about it not to try to compete with Igor Stravinsky or the great classical composers, but to learn from the process of doing — the best school of all.”
Williams also notes that times have changed. Today, orchestras are happy to play film music. “If you went to the New York Philharmonic 40 years ago, they would be condescending about playing anything from Hollywood,” he says. “So I’m lucky that I’m living in a different period.”
Williams’s career has spanned the final decade of the “Golden Age” of film scoring and everything since, so the changes he has seen are amazing to consider.
:: Did I link this one already? I think I may have linked this one already, but the tab is still open, mainly for my own reference, so possibly here it is again: Fifteen essential New York City books. NYC is one of the most fascinating places on the planet to me, and I love reading about it and looking at photos of it and seeing movies about it or set in it. And that’s with the sum total of time in my life actually spent in NYC totaling less than one week! (This is something I hope to address in the next few years.)
:: Not long ago, somehow they were able to project scenes from Star Wars onto the Empire State Building. How? Like this!
:: Whenever you criticize the idea of the Electoral College, someone will invariably protest, “But without it, ‘small states’ won’t matter at all!” Uhhh…no:
Though honestly, in this day and age when everybody is walking around with a gizmo in their pocket that gives them access to all the information (and misinformation) in the world, the idea that any voter should be making their decision based on a local campaign event is increasingly nonsensical. I’m always annoyed whenever anybody tells me that Hillary Clinton lost because she didn’t campaign enough in Wisconsin, as if that absolves the Wisconsin voters from executing their responsibility to the country.
:: A Man Goes to the Movies: Matthew Zoller Seitz looks back at Roger Ebert’s annual Top Ten lists. One of Ebert’s best qualities was his willingness to go against the grain a lot of the time, or if not go against the grain, to at least follow his own personal tastes in guiding his love of film.
All for now! And just like that, my browser is actually pretty manageable again. Yay!
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Over on the Substack…
…I wrote more at length about my mother.
Please read. And subscribe, if you’re so inclined.
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Robert John Guttke, 1952-2023
My newest Substack newsletter is a sad one…but when one knows someone like Robert, one must bear witness on their passing.

